Discover the brutal truth behind executive hiring.

Hey there, digital warriors! ⚔️

Last week in episode #60, we explored the neuro-behavioral science behind elite organizations with Pedro LOPEZ SELA, and the new trend of ‘purpose-driven organization’, uncovering how behavioral engineering is a system to architect sustainable transformation, one individual, one team, one company at a time.

This week, we take that foundation and drop it right into the boardroom.

Because there’s a storm few are ready for: hiring the right CEO.

Let’s get real: finding the right people for your company isn’t just “hard”. It’s a high-stakes, never-ending battle. And it’s not just about the CEO. Every leadership level, CXOs, VPs, middle managers, sets the cultural tempo of your company. Yet in boardrooms and C-suites across the world, I keep seeing the same pattern:

😔 A fundamental disconnect between the top and the middle. Misaligned intentions, broken feedback loops, and fractured culture. The opposite of a purpose-driven organization.

The result?

📉 Companies where people are lost, mediocrity becomes the standard, and process-driven bureaucracy replaces any real sense of purpose.

No wonder disengagement, quiet quitting, and cultural decay have become the norm. The new Gallup 2025 report confirms it: trust is down, purpose is missing, and leadership is silently bleeding.

And these aren’t fringe cases. This is the norm. Most companies are trapped in Westrum’s bureaucratic twilight, grinding away the spirit of their people in the name of performance.

Nowhere is this more visible than in the software industry.

How many software companies have endured across generations?

How many have lasted without collapsing, stagnating, or being consumed by shareholder logic?

The honest answer:

Almost none. The survivors are often stripped of their founding DNA, managed by quarterly reports, and culturally hollowed.

This is the silent tragedy we don’t talk about enough.

🙏🏻 But there’s a way to build differently. A way to evolve, not stagnate.

Imagine a company empowered by sociometric data and behavioral insights. Systems that help protect both employer and employee by identifying friction before it becomes fracture. Where people are supported, not surveilled. Where cultural fit is engineered, not left to chance.

💺 Buckle up, as we dive into the high-stakes truth of CEO hiring with our guest Ron Ondechek, and uncover how behavioral engineering is the game-changer your organization never knew it needed.

🤔 How harsh is it to find the right CEO?

Let’s talk numbers 📊. To find one CEO who truly fits the culture, Ron Ondechek, an expert with decades of experience in executive succession, screens over 4,000 candidates every year. From that massive pool, only one is selected per company, with a yearly cap of just 24 organizations.

That’s not a stat. That’s a signal flare 🧨.

Ron doesn’t do this alone. His screening process is backed by a behavioral assessment framework developed by Stanford University. A state-of-the-art methodology used to evaluate not just competence, but behavioral alignment, personality fit, social fit, and trust-building potential.

When I asked Ron just how hard this task really is, his answer was brutally clear:

“It’s extremely difficult!”

If it takes this level of scrutiny, scientific rigor, and behavioral insight to get the top job right, what does that say about your process for every hire below the C-suite? Is our software industry applying the same standards of cultural fit and behavioral due diligence, or are we playing hiring roulette with process-driven HR systems that fill chairs instead of protecting your legacy?

🧬 The Anatomy of a Disconnected Organization

So let’s be honest. If you’re in the software industry, you already know the answer.

We generally hire by pedigree.

And that failure doesn’t just cost us talent. It creates a ripple effect that breaks everything else. Because when hiring is reduced to paper achievements, credentials, and role-based checklists, we don’t build teams. We assemble departments that look fine on an org chart but are fundamentally disconnected in values, trust, and intent. That’s when the dissonance begins:

• 🔭 The board sets a vision.
• 🗺️ The CEO pushes a mission.
• 😵‍💫 But middle management? They’re out of sync.
• 🥺 And the teams? Stuck in a fog of conflicting signals, with no oxygen for purpose or clarity.

We’ve seen it over and over. The result?

Somewhere along the way, your company’s soul slips out the back door.

This is the organizational wound no ERP system, AI dashboard, or digital transformation framework can heal. It starts with people. Choosing them wrong ones without knowing 😳

When did our industry start hiring for compliance… instead of character?

👨🏻‍⚖️ Why Process Kills Purpose

Once upon a time, HR was the champion of people. Today, it’s a courtroom, laser-focused on legal compliance, layoffs, and shielding leadership from liability. A machine built to manage risk, appease the CFO, and guard brand optics, while leaving the actual people behind.

No wonder employees feel lost, unsafe, and disengaged. They’re tossed into roles they’re untrained for, left without guidance, and judged by metrics that ignore the human side of performance. If we’re using HR to shield risk instead of shape culture, we’re not leading. We’re running damage control on a ship already taking water.

In software, this dynamic is catastrophic. No other industry evolves faster. Yet we treat its people like cogs in a 1980s factory. Upskilling budgets trail behind those of bricklayers. Career development? Mostly lip service. HR, built on industrial-age thinking, can’t keep up.

And to be clear, HR isn’t to blame.

They’re just outgunned by complexity they were never trained for. They’re expected to be culture stewards, legal shields, mental health advocates, and performance coaches, all while managing spreadsheets and severance packages. It’s an impossible mission.

But there’s a better path. 😮‍💨

Imagine HR empowered by sociometric insights. Not to punish, but to protect. A system where socio-behavioral data helps identify the moments people thrive, where coaching isn’t optional, and where metrics reflect real trust, not checkbox compliance. One where HR acts not as judge and jury, but as a guardian of human passiona & potential, for both employer and employee.

What if the problem isn’t your people, but the process guiding how you choose them?

📄 Beyond the Resume: How Elite Hires Are Really Made

If hiring were only about credentials, Ron Ondechek wouldn’t need to screen 4,000 executives a year. But he does. Because pedigree doesn’t predict trust. Or leadership gravity. Or behavioral resonance.

The real differentiator?

Behavioral compatibility.

That’s why Ron’s process doesn’t stop at the resume. It pairs years of practical executive experience with a strict behavioral screening methodology designed to assess how a new hire will change the organization’s social dynamics, not just its org chart.

Because when you bring in a new CEO, you’re not just adding a person. You’re injecting a personality into a living social ecosystem. Get it wrong, and the organization reacts like a body rejecting a transplant.

And here is where most companies in our industry fail.

• Vetting for skills, not sociometric impact.
• Filtering for legal risk, not cultural friction.
• Hiring who looks good on paper, not who moves people in reality.

Elite organizations don’t play that game anymore. They’ve shifted from process-driven hiring to behaviorally-engineered team construction. They hire not for past achievements, but for future adaptability; measuring trust signals, learning velocity, and cultural resonance.

Because the real risk isn’t hiring someone unqualified.

It’s hiring someone who quietly unravels everything you’ve built.

So here’s the question every board, founder, and investor should ask:

“Will this person amplify our DNA 🧬 or overwrite it?”

That’s why the most forward-thinking investors are partnering with us to make the Unicorns’ Ecosystem the operating system of their venture studios; a blueprint for scaling people, not just products.

And if you think this is all theory, look at what’s happening in Milan.

Bending Spoons, Italy’s most admired unicorn, is already proving it works. Their hiring model flips the script: culture over code, values over credentials. They run an internal talent farm, upskilling recruits to elite engineering standards. Not because they use our framework, but because they’ve designed their own behavioral recipe rooted in the same first principles. They hire for potential and cohesion, then grow mastery through mentorship and continuous learning.

It’s not just behavioral theory. It’s market-tested behavioral strategy. And it’s the reason they own or operate household names like Evernote, Remini, Meetup, and WeTransfer, serving hundreds of millions of users.

🪖 Ready to build a leadership bench that protects your culture and powers your growth?

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